Do you want great things to happen to you? Most of us will say yes to this question, but will most of us say yes that we have the ability to make good things happen for ourselves? You may say you need x amount of resources or you need certain people in your network or life in order to make great things happen.
One of the best ways to make great things happen to you and for you is to realize no relationship, partnership or x amount of resources will fill emotional voids you have with yourself. Good things happen to people who know how to make the most of their life circumstances. They find ways to make themselves happy.
Bottom line: you need to show up and step up to the table for yourself to make things happen. If you feel you are broken, you will introduce the wrong people into your life and you will put yourself in bad circumstances. How we feel about ourselves is how we attract others to our lives. People take advantage of people that feel broken and leave after they are done using said people up.
This is why it’s so important to focus energy on yourself and identify your passions in order to learn, grow and do some good during your time here on earth.
You are valuable, rare and inspirational. You just have to believe that you are unique, special, meaningful enough to bring value to the table. You can’t expect high quality outcomes when you are choosing low quality outcomes because you don’t feel enough for yourself.
People don’t have the final say on the outcome of your life. You have the final decision to change your life for the better, no matter your life circumstance.
Only when you truly appreciate yourself can you give rather than hope you are getting the best things in life. Through giving, you will find a positive sense of self and some form of happiness.
People will trust you because you took the high road to be authentic and truly care for yourself. Don’t expect to manipulate people and become a happy and successful person in the process - it’s not going to happen. You need to connect with people in positive ways in order to embrace and enjoy happiness and success. You can only connect with people in positive ways when you are connected with yourself in positive ways.
When you care about yourself, you will attract people that care about you and help you ultimately reach your personal goals. Trust me, people support people that want to make a positive change in the world. It’s not all about money - money comes and goes. A good reputation and trust are priceless and will take you far in life.
I like personal. I like relevant. I like transparent. I like to support the things that people care about, that move their souls. Do you have something worth talking about?
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The question you should ask yourself everyday is how do you matter. If you can’t think of an answer to why you matter, it’s time to put in the work, the effort to discover your value. You should value yourself no matter what - value your creative freedom and the world will value you.
I am Briana Booker, the Founder of www.fromgirltogirl.com , a lifestyle enrichment Magazine and Public Relations company all about female empowerment and entrepreneurship promotion. I do Professional writing for non-profits, government and the private sector. For each sector, I provide the following services: Social media management. Guerrilla marketing. Event planning. Grant Writing. Proposal Writing. Press Release Writing. Copy Writing. Research and Analysis. Editing. Blogging. Lobbying. If I lack a skill I am a quick learner.